In
this year of 2016, Richmond, Virginia lost a local institution.
I’m writing about Dave’s Comics and Cards, a comic-book store which closed its doors for the last time in July of this
year following the death of its owner, Mr. Dave Luebke, in April.
I
first met Mr. Luebke, and visited Dave’s Comics in the year 1988, although the
store opened in 1982.
To provide some context, 1988
was my first year at the University of Richmond, and the store was (barely) within
walking distance of the campus.
My
two best friends, Allan and Chris, would often hike with me through the woods to
the Village Shopping Center to buy comics, toys, or other memorabilia from the
store. There was also a video store close-by, so we would stock up on movie
rentals and comic books.
And usually junk food too.
It
was glorious.
We didn’t have cars (or girlfriends, yet) so Dave’s Comics and Cards gave us
something to look forward to every weekend.
In
particular, I remember that Dave’s Comics stocked Star Trek comics, Fangoria,
Starlog, and even William Anchors’ Epi-Log Magazine. Being away from home and my family in New
Jersey was tough at first, but discovering Dave’s Comics and Cards with my buddies took
away much of the loneliness and home sickness I felt.
The
crazy thing is that I didn’t stop frequenting Dave’s Comics when I graduated
from U of R in 1992. I lived in Richmond
with my girlfriend (now wife) until 1994, so I had plenty of opportunities to visit.
And
when we moved to North Carolina in 1995, we would still make trips to visit her
family in Virginia. Which meant, occasionally, that I could sneak into Dave’s Comics for a visit. Even if
it was just for five minutes.
But totally unexpectedly, this
comic-book store from my youth took on an greater significance for me in the last four years or
so.
Every Christmas holiday, we visit the
in-laws in Richmond, and since my son, Joel, turned six -- four years ago -- he and I have carved out a time to go to the
store and drop some holiday money.
Dave’s
Comics and Cards, in other words, is Joel’s first comic book store.
Over
the years, he purchased a lot of toys there (McFarlane Monster Sets, at first),
and even a giant Mothra (!) once.
Recently, Joel bought some transforming dinosaur
eggs and glass figures in tiny cases. I know that Joel has looked forward,
every year, to returning to Dave’s Comics to see what’s there.
So,
really, the pilgrimage to Dave's Comics has become a father-son tradition.
I’m writing about it
now because -- I realize -- this will be the first year that we don’t make our
December trek together.
Mr.
Luebke, I must say, always treated Joel with the greatest of kindness and even tenderness. I don’t
know how he felt about a six-year old, enthusiastic child bursting into a store
where there were so many valuable collectibles everywhere, but he always spoke to Joel
with respect, and offered to take toys down from shelves so Joel could see
them more closely.
On
at least two occasions, Mr. Luebke outright gave Joel gifts (A Marvel superhero
calendar, one year, and a glass figure another year).
I appreciated, so much,
his patience and tolerance.
I also told Mr. Luebke on more than one occasion that I had been a patron of his store since
1988, but I don’t think he actually remembered me.
I
can’t blame him.
A
lot of customers passed through the doors of Dave’s Comics and Cards during the
thirty-four years it served the comic-book and sci-fi collectible needs of the
community, and he would have had no reason to single me out as special or unique.
But -- during this first Christmas season since his passing -- I wanted to write here about how I remember Dave, my experiences at his great store from the 1980s through the 2010s, and the kindness he always showed to my young son.
Dave’s
Comics and Cards -- and the man behind the store -- will be missed by the Muir family. We will remember him this holiday season, and on the ones yet to come.
John, thanks for sharing your history with Dave’s Comics. I can relate with my own experience locally.
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SGB
This lovely post brings into focus one of the things about the transition to online business that saddens me - the loss of personal interaction and the forming of relationships that could happen with face to face contact.
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